survey says....

A – Accidents

01. Tell the story behind one of your scars. When I was very young, maybe five, I thought it would be a great idea to open a pack of gummies with a gigantic kitchen knife. Almost sliced my finger clean off.
02. Have you ever been in a fist fight with someone? There has been many a time where I've wanted to punch someone on the face. But I can't afford a lawsuit, so no.

B – Beauty

03. Are you self conscious of how you look? Not really. I'm a pretty confident person.
04. What do you think makes a person beautiful? How they conduct themselves, how they treat others, and their overall personality coupled with thier gorgeous features.

C – Consequences

05. Have you ever been arrested? Heh, that's actually a funny story...
06. Do you ever think about how your actions affect other people? Only all the time.

D – Dealing

07. Name a time when you had to be strong. Way too many to count, especially recently.
08. Have you ever lost someone to death? Explain how you got through it. I've lost several family members over the years, but I was pretty young. Luckily haven't lost anyone close to me in adulthood.

E – Experience

09. Do you think that you are sexually experienced, or not at all? Well, I've never heard a complaint.
10. Have you gone through a lot emotionally, or has life been easy thus far? I’m in therapy. Does that answer your question?
11. How old do you act? Sometimes twentyfour, sometimes four, depending on if a Disney movie is on.

F – Family

12. Is there anyone in your family you don’t talk to? Why? Yes. For good reasons.
13. Can you tell your parents or one of your parents anything? I did, and it didn't end well.

G – Growing

14. As a person, do you think you are mature for your age or still act childish? Pretty mature for my age, despite working with kids.
15. Are you scared to think that one day you will turn 30, then 40, then 50? Nah. I have an old soul, perfectly happy to sip tea, yell at the kids on my lawn and watch Antiques Roadshow all day. So I'm set.

H – Hope

16. Are you a pessimist or an optimist? Pessimistically optimistic. Aka, keeping it real.
17. What gives you hope when you just feel like dying? Knowing that tomorrow is another day, and life will go on.

I – Issues

18. Do you have any type of disease or disability? None, unless you count the slight bit of heterochromia in my left eye.
19. Are you currently in a hard relationship or have bad luck with the opposite sex? Our relationship isn't hard, but the people around us make it that way.

J – Jokes

20. Say a word or phrase that would not be funny to anyone but you & one of your friends (an inside joke). La Cucaracha!
21. Are you usually the one who makes people laugh, or the other way around? I've been known to crack wise a time or two. I've got a million one liners, armed and loaded.


K – Knowledge

22. Do people refer to you as smart, dumb, or average? Depends on who you ask and who I've pissed off lately.
23. What do you find the most interesting subject to be (to study or to talk about)? History! Oh, the things I could ramble in your ear. I could go on all day. Especially ancient and medieval history, the Black Death and the Holocaust. Don't even get me started on the Tudors...

L – Love

24. Are you currently in love? If not, have you been before? I wake up every morning and fall in love all over again.
25. Does it take a lot for you to say you love someone, or is it just a word? That word is tossed around so much these days. But if I say 'I love you' to someone, you'll know I mean it.

M – Money

26.Is your family on the poor side, average, or above average when it comes to money? Very much middle class.
27. Would you rather win millions of dollars & be set for life, or find the perfect person to marry & start a family with? Well, I already have the second one, so, about a million or so would be just fine.

N – Naughty

28. Do you know anybody you consider a ’slut’? What makes you say that? Yes, actually. I don't have to say anything, she does a good job of proving that herself.
29. Do you consider yourself more nice or more naughty? You can’t say both! Er, naughty?

O – Openness

30. How long does it take for you to open up to someone? Until I feel like we've bonded pretty well. Then I'm all over you.
31. When it comes to parents and close friends, what’s the limit of what you can tell them? Really depends on what it is.

P – Positive

32. Do you agree with the saying: better to have loved and lost than not have loved at all? Yes and no.
33. Do you agree that something good can come out of everything? I try and look for the one glimmering ray of positive in every circumstance, be it horribly sucky or mildly unpleasant.

Q – Questions

34. When someone does something wrong to you, do you confront them and ask them why they did it or just let it go? Just let it go, it's usually never worth a confrontation. But I can hold a grudge like no other.
35. What is one unsolved mystery about the world that you want answers to? The ocean. WHAT'S IN IT? IT'S MONSTERS, ISN'T IT?

R – Respect

36. How do you show respect? In my world, chivalry is not dead.
37. Do you respect your teachers, parents, and other authority figures? I try not to cause any trouble.


S – School

38. When will you graduate high school/college? Graduated high school in '05. Planning to go back to college and finish it.
39. After high school, what did you do/are you planning to do? Moved in together, made a few friends, got a job and acquired some animals.

T – Temptation

40. Did you ever cheat on someone? Why did you do it? Never.
41. Do you give in to temptation easily, or are you more independent and strong willed? Depends on what it is that's tempting me.

U – Unique

42. Do you follow trends, wear whatever you want, or wear really unique pieces? I'm a very tshirt and jeans kind of person.
43. What makes you different from people your age? I seldom drink, don't smoke, don't do drugs. Mild mannered and boring, I know.

V – Value

44. What’s the most expensive thing in your room? In this room? Probably the computers.
45. What’s more valuable: your life or the lives of your loved ones? Would you sacrifice your life to save your loved one? My loved ones. I've had a good run, and if it came down to it, I would in a heartbeat.
46. What is something you value not because it cost a lot, but because it means a lot to you? I have a lottt of those, but one is my grandfather's army jacket with our last name printed on the front.
47. If there was a fire in your house/apartment, what is the first thing you would grab? If both of us were safe, I would grab the babies and run. I wanted new furniture anyway. Burn, baby, burn.


W – Wishes

48. If you had three wishes, what would they be? An endless supply of unagi sushi, to find homes for all the world's homeless animals, and to have more wishes.
49. Do you believe that wishes come true if you really believe in them? Sometimes you get lucky, but if you work at them and pursue them, yes, things will open up for you.

Y – You

50. What is something that makes you very mad when you see it? Anyone abusing an animal. Do trust that I will go apeshit on your ass with the quickness.
51. Do you think that you have potential to do great things? I do, it's a shame that I'm exceptionally lazy.
52. Do you think people are born a certain way, or develop their personalities based on what they go through in life? People are born with certain things encoded into them that they can't change (physical & mental attributes, vulnerability to illness, preferences, ect.) but things that a person endures in their life definitely shapes who they are as well.
53. Do you think people are generally good? See, I have a hard time with that question, because as soon as I start to think 'well maybe, just maybe...' some douche cuts me off without signaling.

Z – Zest

54. Are you currently happy with your life? Why or why not? Yep. Things are fairly confusing and very different right now, but I've never felt better.
55. When change occurs, do you get scared or are you excited for it? I do like change and am always up for some sporadic knickknack rearranging, but at the same time I am a creature of habit, so some mild controlled change is just fine.